April 12th, 2020 @ 11:45 am

i’m watching this show on netflix and someone on the show just said “when you’re an artist of any kind, you want to be relevant. so when you feel it slipping away, it’s a little sad…”

i am a creator/artist of MANY different things and i 100000% did not agree with this. i instantly chalked it up to probably being a virgo, lol.

i literally do not give one shit if you like my stuff or find me relevant or not – i care about the people closest to me enjoying the fruits of my labor, but people in general, no…  i don’t care if you like my art or goods, and i’m sure that hurts me in the end bc i do have online shops and i rarely market myself.  i don’t even mean that in a snobby way, even though it’s probably coming off that way.  i’m a creator bc i enjoy it, and if you like what i make, that’s awesome!  i don’t expect anyone or everyone to just jump onboard, but if you like it the way i’ve fallen in love with other makers, that’s awesome.  sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn’t.  i’m not trying to be the next big thing.  i find creating things therapeutic, and if i can benefit from it financially sometimes, great!

anyways, i still have continue some research on that whole “i’m a virgo and that’s why i don’t care”, but i did find an article that made me nod a few times, though.

tl;dr: summing up a virgo:

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February 4th, 2015 @ 11:36 am

my relationship with steve is still pretty new, and it’s been pretty easy so far.  i’d be lying if i said knowing over the years how i’ve seen him act with other women, that i thought it would be.  i mean this in the most polite of ways, i just know how i am, and how he is.  i am a “think-with-my-brain” type of person, and he’s a “think-with-his-heart” type of person.  i think that if we hadn’t been friends this long, i would have been turned off to it (god, that sounds awful – but i don’t mean it in an insulting way… it’s just my nature).

i believe in astrological sign compatibility, and i usually check on that whenever i date a new sign.  i started doing that in 2010 after i dated some (virgo) sean lennon lookalike, and haven’t looked back since.  i’ve learned from past experience that i should NEVER date a leo or a fellow virgo (unless they’re on the libra cusp).  i looked both of those sign’s compatibility with mine, after the fact and they were completely accurate.  i decided to look up aries M/virgo F compatibility, just to see where steve and i could be at, and it’s also pretty spot-on…

i’d link y’all to where i got this info from, but there were 93793798379837 stupid ads i don’t want to have to subject you to.

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January 10th, 2013 @ 7:28 pm

i take my astrological characteristics pretty seriously, only because every time i read them – from a million different places – they all describe me TO THE TEE…

over the years, one of my worst/best qualities as a virgo is being critical (i can’t help it).  as i criticize and analyze situations, i instantly start thinking about how to repair them or how they could have been prevented.  i realize that i don’t have all the answers in life, nor do i believe that my theoretical solutions always the “correct” ones (i’m not a know it all), but most of the time, it’s overlooked common sense shit… and that lack of common sense shit, drives. me. crazy.

it’s hard to not be judgmental when there is stupidity in your face ALL THE TIME – especially on social media. if you’re going to use it as an outlet for your true feelings, and for spitting complaints and issues that are going on in your life, just make your accounts private. that way, you can control who is reading your thoughts, and who isn’t.  what sparked this is someone that i follow went on about “mind your business” about a situation at hand.

i find it so annoying when people don’t filter themselves online, and the first thing it makes me think of, is back to the days where if a teenage girl got pregnant, her parents shipped her away…  everyone has gotten to the point where no one cares, i mean – there aren’t that many “taboo” things anymore, so no one does that anymore (not that i think that is acceptable behavior, i don’t, but it’s less common nowadays, is my point).

the point of doing that, was so that people wouldn’t be shamed, or embarrassed for their family’s pride, and for that girl’s reputation. nowadays, it’s seemingly “acceptable”, but the minute someone opens their mouth with an opinion, it’s nobody’s business to have formed or voiced an opinion?

the world started getting FUCKED when people stopped caring about what others think, in a way, i suppose. i don’t think that sending your daughter off because she’s knocked up is the answer either… you can’t just sweep shit under the rug to solve problems.  i believe that there are levels to these things, it’s not black and white. i guess my point is just to think before you say something that doesn’t belong in the public eye, or get angry when someone forms an opinion. a lot of the time, it’s just human nature.

i tweet a lot of stuff and i may blog a lot on this website about my personal life, but there is A LOT that isn’t on here, either.  almost everything that goes on here isn’t all that “deep”, and i don’t expect people to NOT comment on things that i say. feel free to, and i wouldn’t write back screaming that it wasn’t your business to comment in the first place. if it’s in public, it’s up for discussion, and that’s that.

anything that i post here, is general public, filtered babble, that isn’t too detailed.  that goes for over the years, also. i have never aired my dirty laundry in detail about ex’s, specific “friends”, etc. for that reason…  it’s just not productive, and it’s nobody’s business.