October 8th, 2020 @ 5:27 pm
…but i honestly hope not. at first i was like “yep” when i saw this picture, but then i also felt like it had a negative vibe to it. i’d rather take that negative energy and put it elsewhere.
people that actually know me realize i’m usually not the villain. i’m not perfect, but i have perfectly reasonable reasons for cutting people from the team or feeling the way that i feel.
you can pretend i’m the bad person all you want, but i can admit when i’m actually at fault. maybe i don’t fight for friendships – i’m guilty of that, but it’s usually just that i gave up because it took someone too long to realize that they were acting like a piece of shit or maybe it took me too long to realize that someone was acting like a piece of shit, and my patience finally ran out. if that makes me a bad friend, oh well.
i look at friendships just like i do relationships… if you have to work hard at it, i don’t really find it worthwhile.
i’d rather you take that guilt bullshit energy and use it to muster up an apology and admit that you were wrong, if you were. i’d respect someone more approaching me if there was actually a friendship there at another point. i don’t just magically ghost people for no reason.
PSA: don’t be an asshole.