April 12th, 2020 @ 11:45 am

i’m watching this show on netflix and someone on the show just said “when you’re an artist of any kind, you want to be relevant. so when you feel it slipping away, it’s a little sad…”

i am a creator/artist of MANY different things and i 100000% did not agree with this. i instantly chalked it up to probably being a virgo, lol.

i literally do not give one shit if you like my stuff or find me relevant or not – i care about the people closest to me enjoying the fruits of my labor, but people in general, no…  i don’t care if you like my art or goods, and i’m sure that hurts me in the end bc i do have online shops and i rarely market myself.  i don’t even mean that in a snobby way, even though it’s probably coming off that way.  i’m a creator bc i enjoy it, and if you like what i make, that’s awesome!  i don’t expect anyone or everyone to just jump onboard, but if you like it the way i’ve fallen in love with other makers, that’s awesome.  sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn’t.  i’m not trying to be the next big thing.  i find creating things therapeutic, and if i can benefit from it financially sometimes, great!

anyways, i still have continue some research on that whole “i’m a virgo and that’s why i don’t care”, but i did find an article that made me nod a few times, though.

tl;dr: summing up a virgo:

They Don’t Forgive Easily

This Virgo quote clearly indicates that if your partner or friend is a Virgo, don’t tend to spoil things with them.

Because if you do, you might end up losing them as they are not really fast with forgetting things and moving on. So be gentle and calm with Virgos and don’t let them lose their balance.

Once spoiled is spoiled forever with a Virgo. They make immediate decisions and don’t look back no matter how worthy the relationship was for them.

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100000000000000000000% accurate.  sometimes i give people a second chance, but it’s a rarity.  you’ve really gotta prove you give a shit to ever grace yourself back into my good graces.

They Don’t Believe in Arguments to Prove Their Point

Virgos are self-believers. They believe in what they do and therefore will not make many efforts to prove themselves if you don’t really agree with their point of view.

They expect you to critically analyze their work and then raise any conflicting opinion, if at all, any. And if you don’t, they will not make much effort in this direction.

Virgos Don’t Get Angry Easily, but Once Done They Are Done

This Virgo quote says it all. Virgos don’t lose their temper easily. They are not short-tempered and are quite balanced as far as their temperament is concerned.

However, if at all a Virgo loses her calm, it is difficult to restore her to normalcy. Therefore, be careful with your Virgo partner! You might end up paying a larger price then you initially thought of!

They Don’t Have Many Friends, but Those Few Are Real

This quote about Virgos clearly indicates that if you are close to a Virgo or your partner is a Virgo, consider yourself lucky as they don’t let anybody come closer, but once you are in their inner circle, you are in forever.

They don’t find themselves comfortable in the company of many people. Rather, they rely on a few people of their choice and share the stuff they want to share.

They Have Depth in Their Thoughts and Can Stay in Them for Long

As this Virgo quote puts it, Virgos are deep thinkers. They ponder a lot about many things including a person, place, and phenomenon.

They can delve into this thinking phase for long. Virgos are good at observing and utilize their observations for pondering deep about the environment or the surroundings, thereby gaining a deep sense of intellect.

They Are Extremely Jealous and Protective

If your partner happens to be a Virgo, he or she would not like to share you but they might experience feelings of jealousy if someone tends to be closer to you.

They are very protective about their partners and will not let anyone harm you. So be proud of your Virgo partner and make him/her fall in love with you as many times as you can!

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i can’t relate to this one as i am def not a jealous person.  it all depends on the scenario of a situation, i can see maybe having more expected respect to where other people fall in line (re: loyalty).  no one should ever seen more important or get more attention than a partner, obviously – is that jealousy?

i usually equate jealously to emotional rage, which i absolutely do not carry within this virgo bod.

Virgos Are Really Good at Distancing Themselves so be Cautious How You Treat Them

Be very cautious as far as your behavior with the Virgos around you is concerned. They won’t argue or fight in the case of a conflicting opinion.

Rather, they will distance themselves from such people who can potentially mess things up or disturb their mental peace.

Keep control over yourselves in such situations as any trouble-making from your end will not settle the issue— rather, a Virgo will take that incident as a lesson and distance herself from you!

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TRUFE!  i never care to argue or fight. you have your thoughts and i have mine. i have a lot of patience, but i can only take so much.  if you keep being a dunce, it just makes it easier for me to not give one flying shit about you not being in my space anymore.

i can see why other people don’t like us virgos – we’re difficult and unemotional bc we’re logical.  personally, i don’t like to put my shit on other people.  it doesn’t solve anything, and i know that i hate listening to people’s shit on repeat.  i know that probably sounds mean, but it’s not difficult for me to take a situation and fix it the best that i can in a timely manner.  i think i hold that same expectation for others.