February 4th, 2015 @ 11:36 am
my relationship with steve is still pretty new, and it’s been pretty easy so far. i’d be lying if i said knowing over the years how i’ve seen him act with other women, that i thought it would be. i mean this in the most polite of ways, i just know how i am, and how he is. i am a “think-with-my-brain” type of person, and he’s a “think-with-his-heart” type of person. i think that if we hadn’t been friends this long, i would have been turned off to it (god, that sounds awful – but i don’t mean it in an insulting way… it’s just my nature).
i believe in astrological sign compatibility, and i usually check on that whenever i date a new sign. i started doing that in 2010 after i dated some (virgo) sean lennon lookalike, and haven’t looked back since. i’ve learned from past experience that i should NEVER date a leo or a fellow virgo (unless they’re on the libra cusp). i looked both of those sign’s compatibility with mine, after the fact and they were completely accurate. i decided to look up aries M/virgo F compatibility, just to see where steve and i could be at, and it’s also pretty spot-on…
i’d link y’all to where i got this info from, but there were 93793798379837 stupid ads i don’t want to have to subject you to.
note: underlined text is what i totally agree with, italicized is probably what poor steve deals with while dating me, lol, and bold is SO FUCKING TRUE.
When the youthful and highly energetic Aries soul comes in contact with a mature and defensive Virgo soul, we can witness a lively blend of emotions and practicality in their relationship. They both are helpful creatures and like to stand beside one another in times of need, but are definitely not in favor of each others’ views towards life.
Aries man is always teeming with fresh ideas and he detests anyone who tries to snatch away his glory. He has a youthful aura which is very charming and attractive. He has naïve feeling about love but those feelings may sound childish to a tactful Virgo girl. He will always find her to be very pleasant and synchronized lady with purity of love only a Virgo can provide. But at times Aries man in love with a Virgo girl finds it difficult to keep up with her practicality, which makes him outrageous.
While a Virgo woman is best known for her analytical abilities and they can easily determine flaws in anything and everything around them. She has a hard-head in realizing her mistake as she considers herself a pedant. But at the same time she has a very polite manner which is very bright and rejoicing to experience. A Virgo woman in courtship with an Aries man has never to starve for love and loyalty. But she may find him careless and immature sometimes which may disturb her emotional peace of mutual affection for some moments.
A Virgo woman is just a perfect face of delicacy with brains. She has a beautifully imaginative soul but is a butcher when criticizing the weak points of anything or person. Her modesty is adorable and her sheer love is no less than a priceless gift to people around her. Having her as his partner, An Aries man is provided with someone who completely supports all his endeavors and is always there to guide his with her bright and intelligent suggestions. Though this may sometimes challenge his male superiority but now it’s his turn to understand that this is her way to show love and concern. She always likes to be herself and wants her man to be himself; pretention is something out of her dictionary. This not only gives a sense of relief and freedom to him but also builds a mutual trust and understanding between both of them. One thing he has to keep in mind is that she has clarity of vision and can never accept herself to be wrong. She is always correct in her eyes and no one can ever do things in a better way than herself.
An Aries man always provides a Virgo woman with the energy and passion she lacks in her individuality. He is a great admirer of intellect and appreciates every aspect of womanhood of her. But at the same time he hates to be guided and dictated. This hurts his ego and his self-superiority leading to clashes in the relationship. He always supports his Virgo woman in her blues and is beside her in all ups and downs. His loyalty and courage is something that drives her crazy and she is ready to be his co-pilot in all his exciting trips which fills in oomph in her life too. She has to just avoid being bossy with him as this is one thing he can never stand. He can sooth away all the fears and worries of her and teach her to be more open and expressive at least with him. He is a jolly mate being with if treated properly and can take her to the skies of her imaginations and expectations with his passionate ways of loving and expressing.
These two could allow their romance to gradually take the form of a less emotionally demanding and more mutual mental respect. A lot of action and attraction prevails in the physical relationship shared by the Aries man and the Virgo woman. But he needs to give time to his lady to refresh her desires and needs. He is truly and blindly romantic whereas realism rules the head and the heart of the Virgo woman. But one thing that is common in these two is purity of love and oneness, which is displayed through their lovemaking (jess note: LOL i fucking hate the term “lovemaking”). There is immense passion in their physical relationship as their sexual unity provides the cool earth surface with the heat of fire. He exudes a lot of passion but at the same time he is very affectionate towards her and she really appreciates these small nuances displayed by him. He should understand that she cannot match up to the level of his passion towards the physical relationship because she tends to carry a lot of baggage in her mind, and as a result her degree of devotion towards the physical part of the relationship is a bit less than him.
Virgos and Aries are on different wavelengths and though Virgos find Aries as exciting people and Aries always admire the intelligence of a Virgo; their relationship has to look forward to take up their differences in proper manner. Though Aries are very innocent and lovable but their ego and aggressiveness always dampen the spirit of a fragile Virgo. And on the other hand Virgos are no doubt very honest and polite people but their criticism and shyness always give a set back to the confident and excited Aries person. But they have a lot to learn from each other. When he starts understanding and respecting her personality, then she opens up and discusses her problems with him. And once he becomes aware that her reason of criticism is just her attitude and nothing personal, he starts taking her advice seriously.